Karin writing as I did yesterday.
Each day's agenda is a special little concoction I either came up with at home or developed here. Last night I worked with one of the young ladies who works in our Inn to help me with the ideas for the day. I had read about her and how warm and helpful she is when I found our Inn on TripAdvisor.com. I also loved the serendipitous fact that her name is Lulu just like our soon to be daughter.
So, we hired a van driven by a nice man named Lee and spent an entire day exploring the area. Yao Mountain is the tallest mountain in Guilin. It gives a phenomenal view of the entire region from the top. But of course, first you have to get there. We started the day by driving through Guilin and into the countryside. It was a warm, rainy day and the karst mountains were shrouded in mist. On the way there, we past fields of lotus blooms, stone mausoleums cut into the hillsides and small to medium sized brick shacks, simple houses, and apartment buildings.
We took a cable car up to the top of the mountain and on our way were greeted by almost every person who was coming down. "Hello" or "Nimen hao" were the most common exchanges but we even got to have a tiny exchange in Korean. Guilin is a huge tourist attraction in China with over 300,000 tourists per year but most are mainland Chinese. I wish I could show you what I saw now but the pictures will come later. I can say that looking over this incredibly luscious verdant landscape, I couldn't help but think that Minlan was somewhere out there and that because I could see everything, I must be seeing her.
After Yao Mount, we had a very educational visit to the Guilin Tea Research Institute wher we learned about the differences between all teas, the varieties and qualities and then were treated to a traditional Chinese tea ceremony. The adults loved the teas. I have never tasted tea so delicious and we tried 5 very different but equally special kinds. Dec even tried them. Quin preferred to photograph the event. The highlight for the kids, after learning to pick tea and tea seeds, was to watch as a little clay figure spouted water from a hole in his privates after he was soaked in water and then hot water was poured on him. The tea teacher let them see it twice it was such a hit.
Next was a fabulous lunch at the restaurant where guide Lulu had celebrated her college graduation the year before. Phenomenal duck, noodles, special seasonal veggies, pork with battered corn, and steamed bread filled with what tasted like cake batter. Yum.
The next stop was Seven Star Park where we saw the karst formation that looks Iike a giant camel, gorgeous foliage, a waterfall, lots of friendly people, and 8 red pandas and 3 giant pandas.
At the very end of the day, we went to find Minlan's finding place. We knew it was Wayao Market so we tried Wayao Wholesale Market. Our guide Lulu was very brave and asked the market policemen for us about whether they knew about a baby being found there in Feb of 2007. The first one said he had only been there a few months but the older man suggested that it might have been the Wayao food market rather than goods. I remembered that one of the translations of little Lulu's documents listed Wayao grocery as her finding place. We purchased a few regional souvenirs from the minority population goods stand (the textiles are beautiful) and asked Lee to make one more stop. He agreed.
Wayao Grocery is basically a side street with an archway multiple tiny one room shops open to the air, and people on small bicycles or mini-trucks with baskets or pallets full of fruits or veggies or creatures to sell. The street was packed with people who all stared open-mouthed or smiling at us as we walked through to get a feel for the place. It was a place where one feels the poverty and shows us how grateful we should be for the prosperity in our region. It really broke my heart to be there and think of Lulu's birth mother needing to leave her baby at this exact place for whatever reason. How amazing to be her forever mother and to be here now, standing amongst the crowd, knowing that someone could be here that helped my little girl. I am grateful that someone cared enough to call for help and to get her to the authorities so she could come to know how much she is loved and to learn how much goodness is ahead of her.
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Our Adoption Timeline
- March, 2011. Start re-adoption process in order to have US Birthcertificate.
- February, 2011. Our first post-placement report due.
- October, 2010. US Passport applied for and received.
- September, 2010. All kids start school. Lulu to pre-school with Daddy.
- September, 2010. Social Security Number.
- September, 2010. Lulu receives citizenship certificate.
- August 7, 2010. Home to the USA.
- July 27, 2010. Thumbprints and footprints- we adopt our daughter.
- July 26, 2010. We sing to Lulu for the first time.
- July 20, 2010. Left for China.
- June 25, 2010. Travel Approval received by agency.
- June 3-4,2010. Article 5 picked up and overnighted to CCAA. To be received 6/4/10. We begin the wait for TA itself.
- May 18, 2010. NVC letter received by Email.
- May 14, 2010. National Visa Center notified Guangzhou US Consulate of I-800 approval.
- May 7, 2010. I-800 received.
- May 5, 2010. I-800 approved by USCIS and in mail to us.
- May 4, 2010. We bought tickets to China!
- April 22, 2010. USCIS receives our I-800 application.
- April 19, 2010. LOA on Mama's Birthday.
- April 17, 2010. Daddio's and Uncle Alex's Birthday.
- April 13, 2010. Pop's Birthday.
- Apr. 7, 2010. Nana's 65th Birthday.
- Apr. 3, 2010. Auntie Kayce's Birthday.
- Feb. 11, 2010. LID! Our dossier has officially been logged in on this date. We found out about it two weeks later but very happy with quick LID after DTC.
- Feb. 2, 2010. DTC (Dossier to China with courier)
- Jan. 29, 2009. Our official deadline from China based on our pre-approval dated Oct. 29,2009. As of Jan. 26th our dossier is on its way to China. Marilyn assures us that the Chinese component of authentication will happen over three days and then the dossier will be received officially by the CCAA. This means our documents will be officially in on Feb. 3.
- Jan. 23, 2009. Received I-797 (I-800A approval) in mail. Too late to meet Fedex deadline but turned docs around right away to get them to Utah as early as possible. Will be received in Utah first thing Tuesday AM on the 26th. Due in China on the 29th. Please Marilyn, our dossier specialist, save us! Lots of praying to be done....
- Jan. 19, 2009. Day after MLK day so first day office is open. Get call from Officer Harrison saying that approval not yet completed but will be completed today and mailed out.
- Jan. 15, 2009. Spoke with Officer Harrison about I-800A and fingerprint approval. Lots of snafus, some real, some not. Took 3 people to manage them. Should be approved today.
- Jan. 8, 2009. Fingerprinted by Homeland security (FBI fingerprints passed months and months ago) a week earlier than invited so that we have a chance of making the China deadline of the 29th. Agency says we will ask for an extension if our entire file is ready except for the USCIS approval (I-800A)
- Jan 6, 2009. Receive notice that our documents are all in Washington, DC for final authentication at the US State Department.
- Nov. 2009. We move into speed mode to get all the documents together for federal approval and for the China Dossier.
- Oct. 29, 2009. We receive the pre-approval letter stating that we have until January 29, 2009 to submit our full dossier and that agree to process her file as a "Waiting Child" due to her age and need for multiple eye surgeries.
- AM Oct 25, 2009 (Quinlan's 6th birthday). We receive a forwarded email from China entitled, "She's Yours!" by the US folks. Her file is "locked" to us and China needs us to get our photos and letter of intent to them immediately to complete the lock.
- AM Oct 24, 2009. We call back within the hour to say, "Yes!". We are told that we will have to wait 24 hours to see if we will be matched to her. We know it is possible that we may not be lucky enough to match with her and try not to get too excited but it was impossible not to already be attached and to know that we might have to grieve her loss if we find that we were not meant to be her family.
- AM Oct. 24, 2009. We review the multitude of medical, developmental, and personal documents and photos and recognize right away that we have found our daughter.
- AM Oct. 24, 2009. We receive excited call from Kathy Junk stating that Wasatch had matched 2 families that day and that they have a child to match that they think might be our daughter.
- Oct. 23, 2009. We mail our check to Wasatch to commit to adopting through their agency.
- Oct. 2009. Min Lan celebrates her third birthday in China with her foster family who loves her very much.
- Oct. 2009. Completed pre-application with Wasatch and sent in list of medical conditions we could work with in our family.
- Oct. 2009. Researched countries, adoption agencies, and our own hearts and recognized that we would find our toddler daughter in China.
- Oct 1, 2009. Completed our homestudy with the fabulous Allison Reeves.
- Sept. 2009. Completed our huge homestudy documents by pouring our souls on the pages detailing every aspect of our lives from childhood on.
- After a poor experience with one adoption agency, we had 5 glowing references for Wasatch International Adoptions.
- Sept. 2009. We decided it was time to find our daughter.
- Jun. 2007. Baby Lulu has her second eye surgery to try to reduce the congenital esotropia (pointed inward).
- Apr. 2007. Baby Lulu (Min Lan) has a congenital cataract successfully removed.
- Feb. 2007. Min Lan is placed to be found in order to receive eye surgery to save her sight.
- Oct. 2006, Baby Lulu (Min Lan) was born in Guilin, China.
- Oct. 2003, Quinlan's birth in Seattle.
- Dec. 2000, Declan's birth in Seattle.
- Early 2001. Saw "Wednesday's Child" on Portland, OR TV and recognized that we would love to adopt a child someday

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