Yesterday Lulu had her lens implant placed successfully in her weak/left eye. She also had her iris stretched to improve her pupil size. The surgery went great. Everything was smooth and she was such a patient person. When Lulu sweetly rested her head back for her 6th pre-surgical eye drop, the nurse said, "Your parents clearly love you a lot, and I know I just met you but I think I love you too..." because of how well Lulu was participating in the whole experience.
We played round after round of Uno before surgery and Lulu spent some time with the iPad playing pre-school games. She only felt hungry about 15 minutes before surgery so she didn't suffer too much over the food restrictions. After surgery, she was totally comfy sleeping on Mom and resting and snacking on Dad. We also had a special surprise visit with dear friend Steven Han MD. This surgery was longer than the last but not as painful afterward so going without morphine so that she wouldn't be crashed out for 4 hours afterward was a huge improvement over last time.
We left the hospital with 3 prescriptions and a very large pink postsurgical cotton and metal eye bandage with patch. On the way home, Lulu was so ready to get back to life that she wanted noodles right away. We tried to pick up take-out Thai but she insisted on going in and eating at the restaurant just to get food into her faster.
Nana and Bapa and the boys greeted Lulu with a congrats present and we played board games until an early bedtime. Thanks to everyone who took care of the boys!
This morning we had the post-op visit with Dr. Epley and he took off the bandage and pronounced her eye healthy and the lens intact and in the right place. We learned about the work we will be doing to prevent infection and the rapid scarring that children can form. She will take oral steroids every morning for a week plus we have to give two different eyedrops four times a day. Basically it is three meds for a week and one for a month. Then we start all over with the other eye. We are definitely going to have to make ourselves a chart to keep track over each day. Lulu also has to wear the metal patch taped over her eye at night for a week along with no roughhousing, no swimming, no rubbing or scratching, and good hand hygiene.
We can tell that she is seeing differently now but in what ways and how things will change, we will see over time. For now, we can tell that she is not used to using that eye much as it became weak due to the combined lack of a lens and the fact that it was the more tightly turned inward of the two over her lifetime. However, she is already asking about things that she couldn't see previously like a painting on her wall. She is expressing lots of love. I think she knows very clearly how much we love her and how proud of her we are as she goes through all this. It's a lot and she bears it with dignity and joy.
Thanks to everyone for their assistance, prayers, and well wishes. This next two months is all about these lens implants for us in addition to some pretty special holidays.
I will try to post photos tomorrow.
Love to all, Karin
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Our Adoption Timeline
- March, 2011. Start re-adoption process in order to have US Birthcertificate.
- February, 2011. Our first post-placement report due.
- October, 2010. US Passport applied for and received.
- September, 2010. All kids start school. Lulu to pre-school with Daddy.
- September, 2010. Social Security Number.
- September, 2010. Lulu receives citizenship certificate.
- August 7, 2010. Home to the USA.
- July 27, 2010. Thumbprints and footprints- we adopt our daughter.
- July 26, 2010. We sing to Lulu for the first time.
- July 20, 2010. Left for China.
- June 25, 2010. Travel Approval received by agency.
- June 3-4,2010. Article 5 picked up and overnighted to CCAA. To be received 6/4/10. We begin the wait for TA itself.
- May 18, 2010. NVC letter received by Email.
- May 14, 2010. National Visa Center notified Guangzhou US Consulate of I-800 approval.
- May 7, 2010. I-800 received.
- May 5, 2010. I-800 approved by USCIS and in mail to us.
- May 4, 2010. We bought tickets to China!
- April 22, 2010. USCIS receives our I-800 application.
- April 19, 2010. LOA on Mama's Birthday.
- April 17, 2010. Daddio's and Uncle Alex's Birthday.
- April 13, 2010. Pop's Birthday.
- Apr. 7, 2010. Nana's 65th Birthday.
- Apr. 3, 2010. Auntie Kayce's Birthday.
- Feb. 11, 2010. LID! Our dossier has officially been logged in on this date. We found out about it two weeks later but very happy with quick LID after DTC.
- Feb. 2, 2010. DTC (Dossier to China with courier)
- Jan. 29, 2009. Our official deadline from China based on our pre-approval dated Oct. 29,2009. As of Jan. 26th our dossier is on its way to China. Marilyn assures us that the Chinese component of authentication will happen over three days and then the dossier will be received officially by the CCAA. This means our documents will be officially in on Feb. 3.
- Jan. 23, 2009. Received I-797 (I-800A approval) in mail. Too late to meet Fedex deadline but turned docs around right away to get them to Utah as early as possible. Will be received in Utah first thing Tuesday AM on the 26th. Due in China on the 29th. Please Marilyn, our dossier specialist, save us! Lots of praying to be done....
- Jan. 19, 2009. Day after MLK day so first day office is open. Get call from Officer Harrison saying that approval not yet completed but will be completed today and mailed out.
- Jan. 15, 2009. Spoke with Officer Harrison about I-800A and fingerprint approval. Lots of snafus, some real, some not. Took 3 people to manage them. Should be approved today.
- Jan. 8, 2009. Fingerprinted by Homeland security (FBI fingerprints passed months and months ago) a week earlier than invited so that we have a chance of making the China deadline of the 29th. Agency says we will ask for an extension if our entire file is ready except for the USCIS approval (I-800A)
- Jan 6, 2009. Receive notice that our documents are all in Washington, DC for final authentication at the US State Department.
- Nov. 2009. We move into speed mode to get all the documents together for federal approval and for the China Dossier.
- Oct. 29, 2009. We receive the pre-approval letter stating that we have until January 29, 2009 to submit our full dossier and that agree to process her file as a "Waiting Child" due to her age and need for multiple eye surgeries.
- AM Oct 25, 2009 (Quinlan's 6th birthday). We receive a forwarded email from China entitled, "She's Yours!" by the US folks. Her file is "locked" to us and China needs us to get our photos and letter of intent to them immediately to complete the lock.
- AM Oct 24, 2009. We call back within the hour to say, "Yes!". We are told that we will have to wait 24 hours to see if we will be matched to her. We know it is possible that we may not be lucky enough to match with her and try not to get too excited but it was impossible not to already be attached and to know that we might have to grieve her loss if we find that we were not meant to be her family.
- AM Oct. 24, 2009. We review the multitude of medical, developmental, and personal documents and photos and recognize right away that we have found our daughter.
- AM Oct. 24, 2009. We receive excited call from Kathy Junk stating that Wasatch had matched 2 families that day and that they have a child to match that they think might be our daughter.
- Oct. 23, 2009. We mail our check to Wasatch to commit to adopting through their agency.
- Oct. 2009. Min Lan celebrates her third birthday in China with her foster family who loves her very much.
- Oct. 2009. Completed pre-application with Wasatch and sent in list of medical conditions we could work with in our family.
- Oct. 2009. Researched countries, adoption agencies, and our own hearts and recognized that we would find our toddler daughter in China.
- Oct 1, 2009. Completed our homestudy with the fabulous Allison Reeves.
- Sept. 2009. Completed our huge homestudy documents by pouring our souls on the pages detailing every aspect of our lives from childhood on.
- After a poor experience with one adoption agency, we had 5 glowing references for Wasatch International Adoptions.
- Sept. 2009. We decided it was time to find our daughter.
- Jun. 2007. Baby Lulu has her second eye surgery to try to reduce the congenital esotropia (pointed inward).
- Apr. 2007. Baby Lulu (Min Lan) has a congenital cataract successfully removed.
- Feb. 2007. Min Lan is placed to be found in order to receive eye surgery to save her sight.
- Oct. 2006, Baby Lulu (Min Lan) was born in Guilin, China.
- Oct. 2003, Quinlan's birth in Seattle.
- Dec. 2000, Declan's birth in Seattle.
- Early 2001. Saw "Wednesday's Child" on Portland, OR TV and recognized that we would love to adopt a child someday

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